Episode 2

Episode 2 Initiating From Grown Up to Adult with James Lavers

Published on: 20th July, 2023

In this episode I speak to James Lavers, a coach who has been developing exceptional voices in the fields of Personal, Professional & Spiritual Development, assisting them to create magical products and present them powerfully to a global audience. We discuss what takes us from being a grown-up to being an adult and all of the things that come as part of this. We dive deeply into what initiation means and our own views on this.

We talk about:

  • The power of initiations
  • What it really means to step into adulthood
  • The importance of a mix of personality types in the world
  • Being unique and being more of yourself
  • The true meaning of acceptance
  • Our duty as adults in 2023

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About James:

For 20 years James Deneka-Lavers has been developing exceptional voices in the fields of Personal, Professional & Spiritual Development, assisting them to create magical products and present them powerfully to a global audience. His customers are Authors, Speakers, Coaches, Healers, Thought-Leaders & Advice Experts at every level in 143 countries.

James has featured on the BBC. He has lectured on digital entrepreneurship & creativity at the Institute of Contemporary Arts and for MBA Post-grads in collaboration with Cambridge Judge

Business School. He has consulted for Sony, Samsung, Nintendo, Dyson, Bare Essentials, Decleor & Elemis to help their spokespeople better get their products out to the world via TV, online and video.

Previously James served as a consultant and Producer in the infomercial and home-shopping TV industry. In 2003, a chance opportunity to help the self-help legend Anthony Robbins double his sales on QVC set James on a new path helping Coaches, Authors & Advice-Experts to serve more and sell more using the emerging technologies presented by the internet and online video.

James continues to create bespoke experiences to help his clients become exceptional voices that change the world.

Find James here:

Website: www.lazycoach.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/jamesdenekalavers


What part of being a grown-ass adult are you in AWE of James?

It’s capacity to free others and spread good.

What do you see as the most important or valuable shift or change you've made for yourself in your adult life?

Killing the adolescent relics that control behaviour at in-opportune moments


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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.