Episode 36

The One About Balancing It All

Published on: 9th August, 2018

Meet Steph Douglas

Steph Douglas left a career in brand and marketing to start thoughtful gift company Don’t Buy Her Flowers in 2014. The idea came after she had her first baby and was inundated with flowers that were beautiful but required looking after at a time when she was feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. Steph also writes an honest blog about motherhood and relationships, believing that we’re all in it together as none of us really knows what we’re doing. Steph is married to Doug and they have three children – Buster (7), Mabel (5) and baby Frank. She likes gin, dancing, and naps

Find out more about Steph over on Instagram at: @steph_dontbuyherflowers. You can also visit her website - https://dontbuyherflowers.com - find her on Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/dontbuyherflowers and find her over on Twitter: @DBHFgifts 

Fav quotes from this episode:

“Adulting is about taking the rough with the smooth”

“You have to work out how to function and not get too depressed about it. That’s Life!”

“The ridiculous rows you have are funny”

“It’s so easy to forget what your milestones were… You have to stop and go...actually I did this!”

“You can’t really look at what other people are doing, you have to stay focused on yourself because you have no control over them.”

“Don’t chase the finish line, it’s exhausting, just enjoy the moment.”

In this episode we talk about:

  • What it’s like juggling motherhood and a successful business
  • Celebrating the wins, but also acknowledge the struggles
  • How important it is to find a community to SHARE with so that you don’t feel like you’re doing it all alone.
  • The “magic” two year point of most new business when everything changes
  • Learning to delegate elements of your business
  • Creating, and strategising for sanity and success.
  • Setting boundaries and rules to preserve your energy and sanity

 

Plus, we discuss what happens when you think you can do everything.

Next Episode All Episodes Previous Episode
Get notified when new episodes go live!

Get notified when new episodes go live!

♡ You're the best ♡
Enter your best email address for news and updates
Thank you!! - Please share with your friends too!
Show artwork for Adulting with Ebonie

About the Podcast

Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
Support This Show

About your host

Profile picture for Ebonie Allard

Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.