Episode 29

The One About Being A Boss

Published on: 21st June, 2018

Meet Jess Critchlow

Meet Jess Critchlow - Coach, Consultant and owner of ‘Light Up Work’, a business that helps online entrepreneurs to transform into super confident and competent bosses with the knowledge, skills and experience to build their dream team and grow their businesses.

Learn more about Jess and the help and support she offers by visiting her website: https://www.lightupwork.com 

Fav quotes from this episode:

“For me, adulting is doing things you don’t want to do - uncomfortable things that are actually working in service of what you really want”

“70% of people across countries and cultures don’t care about what they do”

“When you try something new with your team, you will screw it up!”

“I have this theory that we confuse empathy and kindness with being ‘nice’”

“I’m an adult but... I have so much baggage about in-laws - I do the teenager noise and everything!”

In this episode we talk about:

  • The importance of uncomfortable conversations, and how on the other side of a conversation that is perceived as ‘difficult’ or ‘uncomfortable’ is a deeper level of intimacy
  • How intimacy is important in the boss/employee relationship, as it is in every relationship, to ensure that both parties are confident and comfortable to do their job
  • What the ‘secret sauce’ for an awesome boss is!
  • The importance of balancing feminine and masculine energies, sun and moon, healer and warrior in EVERY relationship, including business ones. The most successful bosses have awareness and control of both - they know what the right energy is for each relationship and situation.

 

Plus, we talk about how the concept of a leader as an infallible and all-knowing entity is not a realistic or useful ideal, and why we need to change this.

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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.