Episode 104

The One About Being Your Own Best Parent

Published on: 28th November, 2019

Meet Callum Hardingham

Callum is a global adventure and leadership experience facilitator, an inner leadership coach and a life pirate.

You can find out more about him over on Instagram @callumhardingham

Fav quotes from this episode:

“Age is kind of irrelevant, experience is where it’s at.” 

“As long as you’re aligned to an intention that is actually bringing more wholeness into your life or is empowering you in some way…the way in which you do that is irrelevant.”

“We get so addicted to making what’s outside of us more important than what’s inside of us.”

“As we build our connection to courage…then we can face our fears much quicker.”

“Stop what you’re doing. Breathe. Listen. Acknowledge. Explore.”

In this episode we talk about:

  • How you only really grow up when you take the reins of your life
  • Avoiding burnout by learning to recognise and meet your own needs (in the same way that a parent would)
  • The difference between switching off by numbing out and switching off with nourishing downtime
  • The importance of conscious communication not just with others but with yourself too: What are the voices in your head trying to tell you?
  • Getting out of the cycle of your own behavioural patterns and blind spots by working with a coach
  • The positive role that fear can play in personal development

Plus, we talk about how we really need to stop the comparison game and just focus on creating a life that feels good.

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Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.