Episode 18

The One About Choosing Not To Adult

Published on: 5th April, 2018

Meet Sarah Stacey

Soulstyler, Bodyworker, Mentor & Righteous Rebel. Sarah is literally an all singing all dancing one stop transformation shop, with a 15 year background as a celebrity makeup artist and shoot stylist she pressed the eject button on her soulless career AND toxic marriage. She embarked on an epic journey of self mastery and explored every aspect of her mind, body, soul, style AND sexuality. She is now dedicated to liberating other women from whatever boxes, labels and categories that prevent THEM too, from living a liberated life of love, sex, style and abundance.

You can find out more about her at: www.sarahstacey.me

Insta @sarahsoulstyler

Fav quotes from this episode:

‘Adulting to me has kinda gone out the window!’

‘Life is my playground!’

‘I’m an adult but..playing and being creative is still my superpower’

‘I’m an adult but.. I like to burp and fart in public to break boundaries!’

In this episode we talk about:

  • That it’s okay to ‘play’ as an adult and that comes with personal responsibility and empowerment
  • Our duty is to enjoy our life and live the best life we can! 
  • Making a transformation of yourself and giving yourself permission to be in constant evolution
  • The pressure from within and learning to let go
  • Learning to ‘lean in’


Plus, we talk about big life changes and how they can benefit us, what they teach us and the fact that being an adult is not about being ‘finished’! 


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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.