Episode 101

The One About Dating And True Compatibility

Published on: 7th November, 2019

Meet Asa Baav...

Asa is a matchmaker and dating coach for the wild at heart. Creating deeper connections through matching people on sexual preferences and overall compatibility. On a mission to remove shame from sexual desires and bring dating back to real life, where real connections happen.

You can find out more about her over on her website www.tailormatched.com or on Instagram or Facebook @tailormatched

Fav quotes from this episode:

 

“Who am I outside of my career. What do I need? What do I want?”

“Make sure you know who you are falling in love with and why.”

 “If we are bringing this amount of openness and transparency into the bedroom, then that’s going to impact the rest of the relationship in a wonderful way.” 

“I want everyone to get to the point where it’s ok to talk about everything in a relationship, especially the intimacy side.”

“The more I communicate and the more open I am…the more like-minded people I meet."

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • What’s missing from current dating apps
  • The two types of compatibility to take into account when considering whether someone is right for you or not
  • The biochemistry of sex, and the importance of educating ourselves on what’s going on when we sleep with someone, and how that affects what we are thinking
  • What you can learn from the kink community (even if you’re vanilla)
  • The need to normalise talking about our wants, needs and desires in and out of the bedroom 

Plus, we talk about learning to parent ourselves, instead of outsourcing mother/father roles to potential partners.

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Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.