Episode 31

The One About Responsibility and Being a Trans Adult with Nick North [Re release]

Published on: 15th August, 2024

This week's episode is the fourth of seven re-releases from season two. In the one about 'Responsibility and Being a Trans Adult' I’m joined by Nick North to talk about responsibility, ownership and validation.

Do you feel responsible for your own feelings and circumstances?

In this episode we’re diving into how our relationship to responsibility shows up in our relationships, in our families and in our own identities.

Listen on for:

  • Our thoughts on responsibility and its passed from one generation to the next
  • The impact of validation
  • The 'exploding doormat' (A Misfit MO - you might recognise in yourself!)
  • How to take responsibility for ourselves when that’s not what we’re used to
  • The difference between being in a relationship as a woman and being in a relationship as a man
  • Understanding our privilege and how we can use that for the highest good

Plus An amazing tool for handling conflict and compromise in your relationships

Meet Nick

Nick North is a dude, a husband, a dad to 5 kids and a Branding Strategist. He also has a history of living as a woman, a wife, a mom, a photographer and even an EMR. When he embraced his identity and came out as transgender, he realised just how much gender affects the way we think, talk, sell and function. He now speaks from his experience on both sides of the gender coin, empowering men and women to live authentically and powerfully, while also making more money following their passion and their gut. You can find him at http://www.nicknorth.co or sharing many a topless photo and big feelings on Instagram @wethenorths.

Links & resources mentioned in this episode:

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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.