Episode 28

The One About Choosing Yourself [Re-release]

Published on: 25th July, 2024

This week's episode is the first of seven re-releases from season two. In the one about 'Choosing Yourself' you get a solo episode from '2020' me. My message has only deepened from here.

Are you going through life being more than a little co-dependent? Being a people pleaser? A martyr? Always putting others first?

Join the club. I’ve spent most of my life making those same choices.

Sometimes these choices come from need. Sometimes they’re incredibly useful and resourceful strategies, at moments when your safety depends on them. But that doesn’t mean you need to stick with those same self-limiting decisions forever.

As I’ve matured and my circumstances have changed - as I’ve built a life and a business that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside - I have really focused on my values. Value filtered living is where it’s at!

In this week’s episode, I’m looking at why choosing yourself is the key to becoming a truly kickass and kind human.

Listen on for:

  • The disservice you’re currently doing to yourself (and your people) and what you can do about it.
  • The impact that choosing myself has had on my business and what I offer the world.
  • Journaling prompts to help you define what choosing yourself really means for you, and figure out how to take action on that.

AND for those of you who are 'new' to my world, or know me now, you'll get to see (or hear) the shift as this episode is really the marker for when I really started going all in on being 'more selfish, or self-full' - I'd love to hear what shifts in me you notice from then to now.

Links & resources mentioned in this episode:

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Next Steps:

If you are ready to take your first next step, I invite you to get your Value Filter, which I lovingly refer to as YOUR COMPASS. It's my signature tool and a prerequisite for all my other programs.

To find out more, and activate your inner GPS go here: https://www.ebonieallard.com/the-value-filter

If you're curious about your Human Design, you can get your free 'Embody your Design' chart and Report worth £49 for free as a gift HERE

If you are looking to get The Kismet Codes Oracle Deck, go here: https://www.ebonieallard.com/kismet-codes-deck-one

To talk to Ebonie about anything in this episode you can whatsapp her or DM her on Instagram.

If you have enjoyed the podcast, please rate, subscribe and leave us a review as it really helps more people find us. Thank you. If you leave a review and send me a screenshot I’ll send you a £10 credit note to use at www.eboniealchemy.com/products

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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.