Episode 7

The One About Whats Alive Within Me Right Now

Published on: 29th February, 2024

This week's episode is a solo, where I'm sharing life and work updates. So many of you have been following along while I crowdfunded The Kismet Codes Oracle Deck with Kickstarter, and have commented on how easy I made it look. Ready for the reality?

Listen to hear:

  • What has been happening behind the scenes
  • What comes next now that the crowdfunding campaign has ended
  • How I embody my own work

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Transcript
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You are listening to Adulting with Ebonie season seven brings

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together neurodiversity, Human Design and embodiment so that

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Gen X or millennial misfits, and late diagnosed neuro spaces

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become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. This is the

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show where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather

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than think that glow up, not grow up and become full of

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yourself. Because who the fuck else should you be full of each

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week I have real and raw conversations about what it

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takes to be fully resourced and have happy, healthy, intimate

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relationships as a dopamine deficient adult wanting to

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create a better future by being the change that you want to see

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in the world. I'm your host Ebonie Allard aka Ebonie Alchemy

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late diagnosed AudHDer combined type Aspergers in case you'd

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like specifics artist, mystic and self actualization

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facilitator, I'm an international award winning

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multiple brain integration technique master coach with

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special interest in embodied human design for Neuro

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divergence. I've been in the personal development creativity

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and entrepreneurship spaces all of my life and as a five to

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emotional manifesting generator with a left angle cross of

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distraction. I am here to help you know what to trust, and what

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to tune out. Each week, I share relatable practical ways that

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mean, you get to take less responsibility for more reward,

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and safely remove your camouflage for more belonging,

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acceptance and fulfilment. Ready, let's go.

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Welcome to the first solo that I've done in a little while,

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this week's episode, I am going to give you a little bit of a

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life update, a work update. You know, I had huge plans for 2024.

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And maybe you did too. And we're at the end of February. In fact,

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you are listening to this if you are subscribed and getting it

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off the press, and you're listening to this on a leap day,

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it's the 29th of February 2024. And that means that we're about

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to go into march into the last month of the first quarter of

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the year. And so it's a really good time to check in with your

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goals, your desired outcomes, your plans, you know, reassess

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and kind of come back to what is alive for you. Now, I also want

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to give you a little bit behind the scenes what's been going on

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with the crowd funder, the Kismet codes, what you can

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expect what comes next. And I've had quite a few people want to

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know a little bit about the process and like project

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managing and like, how do I cope with all of that stuff as an

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ADHD. So I thought I'd share a little bit on that. And then

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yeah, the way that I work with people is shifting and changing.

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And there's a lot of new people in my world, Hello. And so I

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want to talk to that a little bit of like, give you an update

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of kind of really what my role is, what my job is, what the

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company is about, what, how I serve you, and kind of really

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help you know you're in the right place. If right. And if

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you are also someone who isn't just interested in inspiration,

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but actually wants to shift and change their lives so that they

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get to be the change that they want to see in the world now.

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Then I'm going to give you some next steps. And I'll tell you

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what those next steps are, depending on where you are in

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your world and in your reality and what it is that you maybe

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perceive as the problem, and the solution or the outcome that he

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would desire. So we're going to talk a little bit through the

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Choose Your Own Adventure, journey map that my business is

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and that it offers you. So I'm gonna try and keep myself on

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track. And then in the patron part of the podcast, we've got

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some wonderful new patrons. Hello, lovely to have you on

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board. I love the patron part, because it is the kind of behind

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the scenes extra edit where I spill the tea and my guests get

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some really direct questions. And sometimes that makes them

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uncomfortable. And sometimes it's really awesome because

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they're like, Oh, these have really made me think thank you.

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I had a recording with Nicola Humber of the unbound press,

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which I think will come out next week, week after some point in

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March. And she's an ex client and a friend and we had a great

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conversation and I asked her some difficult questions in the

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Patreon part. And she said, you know that they were she really

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loved them, even though the parts of them were

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uncomfortable. They got her to think about things that she

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hadn't thought about in years. So that's why I love the Patreon

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part and in this week's This episode of the Patreon part, I

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am sharing five ways that my design, my human design

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electromagnetically supports yours or helps you. And so you

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can get really clear on what it is actually, that you are

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attracted to. And more than that, like the whole point is, I

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want this for you, like your design, when you embody your

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human design, you are an electromagnetic match for your

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clients, for your relationships, for your loves, for your work

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for whatever it is that you truly desire in your life. And

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so the work is not about trying to be something different or

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present in a certain way, which so many of us and I know me

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particularly, I can only really talk from my own experience as

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an autistic, ADHD and late diagnosed. You know, this is the

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biggest thing that I see with my people is that most of you know,

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I didn't, I had absolutely no idea that this was even a thing

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for me. Until I was diagnosed at 42. Right. And most of my people

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like when I was really thinking about like, well, what's the

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common thread that runs through all of my clips, because I've

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been doing this a really long time now. I have been full time

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in my coaching business working with the misfit to move away

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with the principles that I share that with my value filter, with

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one to one clients with group containers, you know, with all

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of it for 10 years. And actually, March is the

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celebration of 10 years of Mr. To move him. And, you know, at

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that point, the tagline for the book risk to Maven is from app

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to and, you know, I continue to get ah, like these are Harz in

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my life every single day from working the pillars from working

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the eight pillars of practice 10 years on they still I still do

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it every single day. And I think there is this misconception that

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m to m, my, my signature programme, Mr to MAVEN is a one

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and done right that it solves a problem that you work your way

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through it, and it will be fixed in some way. When the truth is

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it's a philosophy, it is a way of grounding into alignment

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every single day. It's a way of understanding yourself better.

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It's a way of getting really clear on like, Okay, what is it

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specifically that I am stuck on right now. And then you can do

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that and be like, Okay, well, I'm feeling apathetic, or I'm

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feeling I've got this sense of everyone else is driving me

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nuts, then you can go into m to m and like, literally on the

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contents page kind of go, I feel this. And it will tell you which

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pillar that you get to go and work on. Right. And so the first

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time you go through it, it's it is solving something right? Like

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it is helping you to adult fuckup right, it's really

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showing you how to take less responsibility for everybody

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else, more responsibility for you or the appropriate level of

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responsibility for everything in your life. And it is designed

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for misfits like me and you who are kick ass and kind who care

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so much and, you know, have something really different and

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innovative to offer the world, but don't necessarily know that

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don't necessarily see it and don't necessarily have great

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boundaries. And or are such giving people that they don't

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realise that sometimes helping her sometimes giving too much.

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He's taking sovereignty away from other people. And so what I

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love about Mr. Tobin is that it grounds you back it acts, okay,

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I have an open root centre and have an open head centre. And I

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didn't know this when I created it. And the more human design I

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do, and the more in body mind design, the more I'm like this

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programme I created 10 years ago is genius. Because what a value

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filter does, and is connecting with your root to get you back

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in alignment so that you're not feeling the pressure and

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starting everything on the back foot from a place of pressure.

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And so that you're not anxious and worried and like low level

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trying to answer all sorts of questions and make things fit

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for you. Okay, that's kind of open head open Arjuna. Anyway,

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I'm gonna go more into that in the Patreon part. So yeah, it is

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this is this programme, and philosophy and way of life that

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fundamentally shifts who you are and how you're penetrating the

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world so that life, love relationships, business gets to

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be easier. Now sometimes when I call it the fundamentals. People

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are like, yes, but I've been doing personal development work

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or I've been running my business or I've been doing whatever for

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years. I don't need the basics. And like it's not the best

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Basics, it's the bits that you've missed. It's the five

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degree shift. It's the stuff that until it fundamentally

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changes within you, nothing's going to change. And so I'm a

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huge lover of my own work because I still use it every

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single day for myself. And over the course of March, you're

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going to hear from all sorts of different people who've either

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done some of the M2M misfits, Maven, pillars of practice and

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process with me one to one, or in a group setting or in a

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different environment, different people coming and talking about

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that. And I will be sharing either in lives or in blogs, or

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in also on social media and about mastectomy even as well.

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And it's a partner launch that we're doing because this product

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is evergreen, you can join at any time for the 10 year

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anniversary, and I wanted to do something special. And so I've

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got some really great partners who've either been through the

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programme or who have been a part of it in some way over the

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last 10 years, who will be sharing it with their audiences

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and offering something for you to join through their link. And

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that's a really exciting for me as well to see how this work has

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gone out into the world and impacted other people. And

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that's probably enough,

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about misfit to November, because you will learn more over

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the month. If you haven't ever encountered it yet. It is eight

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pillars of practice that make optimistic to move in ways that

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allow you to be more of yourself. And less of everybody

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else, remove your camouflage, therefore, get back a whole load

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of leaked energy, so that you feel more energised, more clear,

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more focused, all of that. And one of the big things that it

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does is like all of my offers take you from place of self

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doubt, to a place of self trust. And I think one of the main

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things that I wanted to say is that most people who come into

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my world have no idea what it is that they don't know. So they

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don't know what they don't know. And they come in for, you know,

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more confidence or more clarity or more energy, or more self

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love, you know, and what they discover is deep self trust,

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that allows them to feel really good, enjoy their lives, the

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impacts and ripples out into everything else because there's

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this low level anxiety this low level. I don't feel I'm not

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right, that has been with them their whole lives. And that self

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doubt is systemic of being a misfit and systemic of

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undiagnosed, often, autism, or ADHD, or some other kind of

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awesome, complex, PTSD of some sort. And ultimately, you know,

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most people come into my well, they're coping, they're doing

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lives now. Lots of them have got jobs and houses and careers and

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are highly intelligent and have made life work. But there is a

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cost. And what happens is they shy away from get to our app,

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sometimes it's summertime kind of 28 sometimes it is, you know,

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coming up to 40. But really, we get to this kind of this portion

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of life where the everything is too much. And we can no longer

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cope, we can no longer do everything that we have been

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doing in order to like keep life at bay, because we would like

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more for ourselves. We'd like to enjoy it. We'd like to move from

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survival to thriving. And some of that is is incredibly simple,

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but it's not easy. Right? So it's like having a good yes and

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having a good No. Saying yes when you mean yes and no when

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you mean no, you know all of those kind of things living in

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line with your value filter, living your values, not just

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saying them. So that's why the value filter is so important and

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really aware and very hair twiddly today, if you're

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watching this on YouTube, I apologise. Very hair twiddly

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today because because I am because my friend is doing weird

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things. Because I put a treatment in my hair. And yes,

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it's just going away me. But I like what you said. Good things

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you should know about me I am hilarious and ridiculous. Don't

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take yourself too seriously. So let's carry on. That's, that's

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some of the stuff that you need to know, if you're thinking

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about working with me, I like to open my one on one app a couple

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of times a year. And at the moment, I have some spaces for

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one to one. And I would love to work with you if you're somebody

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who suffers from self doubt. And that can be like people always

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think, Oh, it's just people at the beginning of their journey

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who have suffered from self doubt, no, I've got clients who

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are seven figure business owners who still suffer from self doubt

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in some way, right? Like they wobble. And they need a pep

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talk, or they need to be reminded of who they are. And,

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you know, or it's, you've got a big project that you would like

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to bring in the world and you don't know how, or you want some

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accountability and not the kind of accountability where it's

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like, I hold you accountable, because I only work with adults

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want to work like people who are able to recognise that they are

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responsible for them. And that I can support you that I can run

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alongside you that I can hold your hand or your hair as you go

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on this adventure, that I am a Wayshower. And I likened myself

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recently to the White Rabbit in Alice in Wonderland, right,

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like, I'm going to show you which direction to go in. I'm

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going to keep you on track. But it's your adventure, right?

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Anyway, enough of that, for now. Yeah, the kind of glow up part

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of growing up and becoming full of yourself is the twin journey.

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And if you are interested from anything I've said, you can join

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anytime. And if you join in March, you will get a wonderful

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bonus, which is that in April, so if you join at any point in

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March, you get lifetime access to him to him, which is pretty

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cool. And in April, I am going to be doing a live spirit. And I

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have not done this for years. But I'm going to go through the

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pillars with everybody. One Pillar per week, and I'm going

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to go live each week and talk to everyone and yeah, it's gonna be

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really, really fun. So it's a great time to join. If you have

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done, we parenting work, if you've done shadow work, if you

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have met yourself embraced, faced and embrace the things

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that you're not willing to look at, if you've got if you've

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actually done these fundamental pieces where you're living your

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values, then it is now time to become full of yourself right to

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really move into that like what are my superpowers to really

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fall in love with and become fascinated and obsessed, but in

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the best possible way with being full of yourself, not holding

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yourself back not starving yourself or view or the world of

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you but really becoming full of yourself and the way that I do

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that with people, take them on that adventure and be the guide

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on that adventure is by using your human design your gene

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keys, your Numerology, the archetypes within you looking at

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your Soul Map, and really pulling it out and giving you

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the allegory and painting the pictures for you so that you can

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see what you're here for. And become more of that and crowd

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out all of the other stuff. Yes, so that you can experience more

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liberation or freedom or belonging more love, more

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health, wealth, happiness, you know, all of those things. And

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that is available for you as well. If you want to come on

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that journey with me, then, you know, reach out. What else do

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they say I took about I said I would talk about the crowd

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funder. So for me, this is such an example of what it looks like

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to work with your design. So I've had quite a few people say

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you know, how on earth did you think that it was going to be

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okay to like launch a crowdfunding deliver? Because

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launching a crowdfunding is a massive amount of work all on

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its own right? Continue to work with your one to one clients,

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write the book, draw all the pictures, create this oracle

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deck? What are you insane? And the answer to that is maybe, but

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also have a manifesting generator who knows himself

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really, really well? And it is in my design that I need some

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group accountability I need people to be doing things for

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and in service of and one of the best ways to do that and It is

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through a crowdfunding platform or through pre selling, and

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allowing other people to show and be a part of my journey. And

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it's what I did for my book for Mr to Maven, I crowdfunded that

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the launch of that I was so close to the end of getting out

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there. And I'd kind of hit this wall of like, actually the

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shadow side of my game 28, which is my unconscious service, which

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is purposelessness. So I'd hit that place of like, well, what

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is even the point. And the point is to make an adventure, and to

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allow other people to like, come on this adventure with me and to

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see themselves fall in love with themselves and all of that. And

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so when I bring other people into that, it really supports

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it. And there is something to be said, for this

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strategy and authority base. So the strategy is to respond, and

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for me to inform has a manifesting generator, right.

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And so being able to respond to other people who are enjoying

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the cards, being able to inform like, I've done this much, I'm

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up to this, we're at this place, now, we've reached this amount

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of money, like that was so in alignment with my strategy and

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authority. And so the habit Crowdfunder, I wanted, I needed

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eight and a half 1000 to launch these cards to for the cash flow

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to have them created in the way that I wanted. My stretch goal

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was 10,500. Like, that's what I really, really had in my head as

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what I want. And you know, having worked with my own

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design, and really embodied it, I decided for the first time in

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maybe my life, to not go for the ridiculous goal so that I could

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then self sabotage so that I could then be like, See, I

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didn't do it was hard. No one wants this. I decided to go for

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the smaller goal, make my life easier. So the other thing is on

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Kickstarter on crowdfunding, some of them, it's all or

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nothing, right? So unless you fully funded, don't get any of

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it. So it's a lot of work to do to not hit a target. So I made

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the goal lower. And that meant two things, it meant that we

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achieved that and answer, and actually, we, the final amount

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on the Crowdfunder was 10,494, which is pretty damn close to

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the 10,500. Right? And the whole way through, actually, I had

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little things like I want it to get to a certain level of

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funding in the first 24 hours. And then I wanted to hit the

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actual goal of Valentine's Day, which I did you know that all of

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these things are fun, they were playful and fun, and they made

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it an adventure. And as a manifesting generator, that is

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what they have to be, the whole thing has to be in order to be

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in alignment has to be fun. So yeah, it was it was really,

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really fun. Now, does that mean that it wasn't also difficult or

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a lot of work, it has been the most incredible amount of work.

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And there have been like, the other part of that is as an ADHD

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or the dopamine of like, we've had this bid or like, oh, I need

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to focus on this now or, you know, or, like, I really need to

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get all of the cards done in this day. And I've had people

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say like, how did you do that? Or like, why would you set

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yourself up like that? The answer is dopamine, the answer

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is right. Those levels of excitement or pressure create a

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dopamine hit for me. But this is working with my design rather

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than against it. However, there is the other side of that, which

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is that, you know, I don't always believe in myself. And I

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therefore have a really good support team around me who

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encouraged me and helped me remember all the times that I've

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succeeded that I hit crazy goals for myself, you know, all of

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that. So, it is really important to have people who get you who

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can see you who can reflect you to you. Yeah, and who aren't

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Yes, men who are gonna say, No, you're wrong. And I'm very, very

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fortunate to have created that. And also it was me getting out

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of my own way and being ego less or working with my ego in a

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healthy way to create those relationships. And so, be here

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if you know that you've got a book in you or a project or a

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game or an art exhibition or like you know, something that

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you want to create in the world and you're scared. You've got to

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get out of your own way and you could ask for support and help

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and I am available to help help you to do that, if you want to

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work with your design, we will do it my way we do it your way.

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Because ultimately, this is the whole point is that we want to

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create something that works for you. And that you that is

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sustainable, right? That you can leave working with me and go and

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carry on using those strategies that you have learned work for

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you and know why they work for you, as well. So that's just a

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little, a little behind the scenes of kind of where we are

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at why you are listening to this, I will be at pamper day.

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Because that is what I gave myself until last night to get

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the writing for the book for the kids because dec in and then

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it's with my lovely friend Haley, who is proofreading it

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and typesetting it and all of that for the printers. And so

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while I am at Spa, she will be doing that. And then tomorrow, I

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am heading to London, and an event on Saturday. And then I've

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got some stuff Sunday and Monday and then I'll be back into some

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kind of routine. And like actually looking at all the

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admin in my life that I've missed. Oh my gosh, the real

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life ness of this is the kind of thing that just went into my

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head is I have to bring HMRC and I have to do that today. Yes,

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the real liveness of this. So most of the things I'm ignoring

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Tom next week, but that what I will do. So yeah, welcome to

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what it's like to live with both ADHD and autism and be

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successful and be happy and have both the business and or some

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work that you love and enjoy having relationships that are

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rewarding and fun and healthy. You know, all of this is

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possible for you too. And I ultimately, that's what I want

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to support you are doing is designed and live a life that is

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as unique and extraordinary as you are, that genuinely feels as

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good on the inside as it perhaps looks on the outside. That is

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what I'm here for it gets to be as unique as you are. And yeah,

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the fundamental parts of that, regardless of how unique the

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expression is, are the same. And they are really around being

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responsible for yourself. And knowing what it is that you

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want, not what other people want holding a really good yes and a

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good no facing embracing your demons doing some work around

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boundaries, choosing an attitude of Penan orientation of thriving

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and an abundance and resource rather than seeing yourself as a

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problem to be fixed. And then knowing that there are cycles

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and seasons in life. And that's what we do in into him. And then

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if you want to get into there really specifics of like who am

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I? What am I actually made, alright, we look at the elements

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that you're made of, we look at the code that you're made of the

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things that you can do effortlessly. That doesn't mean

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that there's no it's not effort. It's like intention and energy

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behind it by it's just who you are. And they're still focused,

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they're still intention, there's still energy behind everything.

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And your life gets to be less hustle and less hard and log

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late for more fun. Yeah, I also promised you at the beginning of

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the episode, tell you what's alive for me now like what's

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changed in my plans, gizmos, what comes next? And I obviously

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didn't do that. So I thought I'd do it for you now in a very

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simple way. So the beginning of this year, I thought I would

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create the CRISPR code, Oracle deck, and then there would be

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the Kismet code portal. And then I would create a book called How

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it's got a whole title book becoming full of yourself and

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would launch that and then there would be a mastermind for than

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Baba Baba, right? Oh, ebony. The truth is that having nearly

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finished the Kismet code, Oracle deck and the guidebook that goes

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with it, yes, there is loads more that wants to come through

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and the book is still there. And there's all of those things. But

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this also really needs space to be enjoyed, and to land with me

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to tour with it and all of those things. And so the second book,

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my second book book, becoming full of yourself, will come but

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it may or may not be this year, it's kind of pushing further

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out. I will be touring with the Kismet code. So I'm going to be

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in Philadelphia on the second, third and fourth of August this

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year. I have space for one VIP day on the second of August in

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Philadelphia, and I'm doing a beautiful two day non

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residential event, although there are two bedrooms available

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in the space that we're using. And there are six places in

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total for that, and two of those have already gone with maybe

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three, but two of those have already gone. So if you are

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interested in coming to an event with me in Philadelphia in

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August, please reach out and let me know we will be deep deep

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diving into your human design and your Kismet codes with the

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deck. And we're bringing my drum taking on how can alchemical

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journey and shamanic journey so it's gonna be pretty, pretty

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special. I will then also be in Toronto in December doing a very

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similar thing. And so if you want a VIP day with me, in

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Toronto,

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or you want to come to the two day event that I will do there

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also please message me about that. I've got people travelling

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from all sorts to that one as well. I've got three people

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booked for that one so far. So that has what's going on, then

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the Kismet codes portal will be coming next before or maybe

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alongside some kind of group mastermind experience. I have

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not decided yet but the after the launch of the deck, the book

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launches in May in Brighton in the UK, I need to work out

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exactly how many tickets are left but there are a few tickets

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left to come to that that is an all day event between from like

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midday to five or six in the evening. That is now 145 pounds

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if you want to come and join us live and that includes your

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deck. Message me I need to work out like I said exactly how many

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tickets I have left. What else the plan then it's to open the

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portal for the Kismet codes and that will be where you can learn

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about numerology astrology, embodiment, multiple brain

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integration, somatic awareness. Did I say numerology just all of

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it in one place, right? The way that my brain integrates all of

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these things in short videos, workbooks exercises, and you

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will be able to create playlists and things like that inside it

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and there will be launch pricing, and then it will go up

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into different pricing. And that is going to be my kind of full

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of yourself portal if you like in the same way as you can do a

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glow up experience with me and work on growing up not growing

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up one to one and their programme that goes with that

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mastectomy then you can also become full of yourself and work

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with me, I want one or him retreats and stuff like that, on

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that journey on that transformation, and Kismet codes

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and Akismet code portal is the programme or place or curriculum

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that goes with that. So that's that's all my updates. And yeah,

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so that's how things are evolving. That is what is

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aligned for or alive within me and is becoming into alignment.

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Now. After I've got the artwork and the book into the printers,

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the next bit is for me to be working on the audios for the

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Kismet codes themselves. I'm currently also looking for a

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publishing and distribution deal. So if you're a publisher

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or distributor listening, hi, message me. And yeah, then after

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that, we go into the land of funnels, and creating away that

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from the box of the cards, you come into my world and get taken

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on this Kismet code portal adventure. So that's everything

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Have a great week, the community call is on the first Tuesday of

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the month, and that is March. But whatever coming up, so if

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you're listening to this on Thursday, the 29th of February

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go register for the community call now. I want to know what's

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then either coming your next steps from there are to come

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similar journey and support each other and become part of a

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community and offer things in there as well as receiving or to

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do the value photo which is your compass and is a prerequisite

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for doing any other work with me or to have conversation with me

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about what your next step might be. They're always reports and

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artwork and all sorts of fun inspiring things to remind you

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of how gangland nificent you are as well. So I'm gonna leave it

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there. You know being human seeing yourself as human, not

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worry worrying about how other people see you whether you've

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done enough when you like and trust yourself, really, you have

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so many less facts to give, because you're proud of you. And

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ultimately, the one relationship that matters above all the

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others in this life is your relationship with you. And yeah,

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my work is to help you take it seriously was taking it far less

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seriously. Yeah, I'm gonna leave it there for now. And in the

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page report, I'm gonna go into the five ways that my design

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specifically helps you are so really looking at this, the

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pressures that I feel and why and how that helps you. The

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feelings I feel on the emotional, emotional

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rollercoaster that I am and why that helps you. Why me having a

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really big ego helps you and a little bit about my specific

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incarnation cross being the Left Angle cross of distraction. Yes,

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really, and how that helps you. So if you're interested in any

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of that become a patron. I will see you on the inside on the

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10 pound credit voucher to use on my art store. Thank you so

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much. Have a good week and I will see you soon. This has been

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editing with ebony. I've been Ebonie you've been great. Thank

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you so much for all of your support. Please keep listening,

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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.