Episode 9

The One About Finding Out About Your Block

Published on: 1st February, 2018

Meet Lucinder Kerr

Lucinda won a competition to get a free mini coaching session with Ebonie and was invited to do her session LIVE on the Adulting with Ebonie podcast! She wanted to discuss her feelings of ‘not fitting in’ and why she is not following her real dreams and desires of freedom. Listen and discover the blocks that are holding Lucinda back, and her values which she would like to prioritise. Ebonie and Lucinda chat about the deep rooted reasons for her hesitancy and which techniques she can use to take action!  

Fav quotes from this episode:

‘I often have a real feeling of not fitting in’

‘It might be in my own head, but I hear the word ‘flakey’ a lot!’ ‘

‘You are communicating to me very clearly about what you DO want!’

‘The universe will step up and support us’

‘A rising tide lifts all ships’ 

In this episode we talk about:

  • Searching for a sense ease and trusting that your decisions lead to that
  • Letting go of the ‘old’ ways that are no longer serving
  • Introducing a sense of adventure into daily work
  • Letting go of judgement and having a sense of truth
  • Gaining the courage to take some radical action


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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.