Episode 27

The One About Asking For Money

Published on: 7th June, 2018

Meet Emily

Join Ebonie and Emily for a live coaching session. Emily is an M2M(f) member who wants to talk about the emotional barriers that hold her back from having a positive relationship with money in her business.  Emily often finds that in situations where money isn’t involved, she experiences greater enjoyment and satisfaction than she does in situations where money is involved, and wants to shift this mindset.

Fav quotes from this episode:

“I feel resentment that is associated with the idea of asking for money”

“Managing money currently feels like a huge, unenjoyable experience”

“In my family growing up, money was never really talked about”

“I feel like someone is monitoring what I am doing”

“Adult Emily wants to play more!”

In this episode we talk about:

  • How money is relative - with a thousand pounds representing a fortune for some people, and pocket change for others - and why there isn't a 'one size fits all' money mindset
  • How incentivising chores and challenges for children can have an impact on their attitude towards money as an adult
  • That the completion and perfection of tasks and goals doesn’t necessarily correlate with happiness and enjoyment - it’s okay to get things wrong sometimes, or simply enjoy the process and do something for ‘fun’

 

Plus, we discuss how we all have different versions of ourselves (i.e. ‘Adult’, ‘Playful’, ‘Organised’, etc.), and it’s our job to call on the most appropriate persona for different aspects of our day to day and business lives.

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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.