Episode 63

The One About Finding Your Kink

Published on: 14th February, 2019

Meet Mary England

Mary Is The Colourful Boss Babe Behind Uncustomary, The Corner Of The Internet Where Self-Love Meets Creativity. She Is A Huge Advocate For Mental Health, Body Positivity, And Celebrating The Every Day. She's Published A Book And Workbook On Self-Love And Continues To Leave A Trail Of Glitter Wherever She Goes.

Fav quotes from this episode:

“If you can’t handle what I look like then that’s on you.”

“Adulting is ultimately having the freedom that I didn’t think I had before.”

“What is hotter than knowing that you are both into something?”

“There is a huge importance of consent culture in kink.”

“Kink is a beautiful world of non-judgemental, embracing open arms and beauty.”

“If you have an inkling of trying something, and you’re scared, then know that there is someone out there who is willing to try it with you.”

“Please stop talking about anal sex at dinner”

In this episode we talk about:

  • Mental health, and body image.
  • Making the decision to love and accept yourself and find that inner confidence.
  • The challenge of feeling “different” from everyone around you, and relief of finally finding your tribe.
  • Kink. What is, what it’s not, and why it’s a beautiful community to be part of.
  • Consent, communication and boundaries - and how they form integral cornerstones of all adult relationships.

 

Plus, we talk about having the courage to be different and to go after what you want!

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Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.