Episode 62

The One About Plan B

Published on: 7th February, 2019

Meet Ruth Ridgeway

Ruth Ridgeway is the creator of The Lifestyle Designers Club and an understander of what happens when your life gets turned upside down and inside out in an instant.

She’s the proud girlfriend to her guy who was involved in an accident that left him paralysed in 2014. She shares their stories of life, love, hope and strength and what it’s like to create a (different, but equally beautiful) ‘Plan B’ life on her blog.

Through her work, stories and online club she’s helped hundreds of women to design businesses they love that allow them the freedom, security, and flexibility to do what they want, when they want, and from anywhere in the world they want through creating their own online courses, products and memberships.

Find out more about Ruth on her website: http://www.ruthxo.com

Fav quotes from this episode:

“Adulting means getting to choose what the heck you want!”

“It’s our job as adults to take care of our mindset and happiness even in the face of shitty circumstances.”

“Life is real and shit happens.”

“You will laugh again, you will have a better day again.”

“‘This too shall pass’ is my mantra.”

In this episode we talk about:

How quickly life plans can change, and what circumstances changed Ruth and her partner’s lives in 2014.

How important it is to be present for the good things that happen in your life

That Plan B isn’t necessarily ‘second best’ – it’s a different type of beautiful.  

How it’s easy to stop looking at what is fun, and start looking at what is easy or useful, but that isn’t necessarily what you should do. 

Plus, we discuss why it’s a good idea to train to be a ninja!

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Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.