Episode 15

The One About Learning To Be Charming

Published on: 15th March, 2018

Meet Dre Domenichini

Dre was born Autistic and found dealing with people very hard. Disappointed in his progress reaching his personal goals, he decided to harness the hyper focusing of his condition to study human behaviour. 7 Years into his journey, he is now disarmingly capable at figuring out what makes people tick and has been producing a podcast about becoming a more effective human being. 

You can find out more about him here: http://voicesinthedark.world

Fav quotes from this episode:

‘Adulting for me is coming to own who you are, your talents and your problems.’

‘No doesn’t always mean no!’

‘I’m an adult but when I get overwhelmed I regress to funny childhood behaviour’

‘I’m an adult but I’m not always polite in telling people I need some space!’

In this episode we talk about:

  • Taking responsibility for personal development and being in charge of your own goals and results. 
  • Figuring out who you really are
  • Learning to be charming, and how behaviours can become natural
  • Challenging yourself to connect with other people, and overcoming built in protection mechanisms
  • How to build rapport and build trust when it feels difficult
  • The concept of failure and learning things which are outside of your comfort zone

Plus, we chat about learning and admitting that you are wrong, our introvert/extrovert bank accounts and our favourite books!


References:

You can check out those books on Amazon: 

The 48 laws of power

The power of the actor


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Adulting with Ebonie
Your weekly dose of introspection and contemplation on what it means and takes to be a conscious, creative adult with a misfit mind.
Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.