Episode 84

The One About Living Beyond The Label

Published on: 11th July, 2019

Meet Lauren Polly

Lauren Polly is a speaker, a coach and a multi-award-winning author of her book “The Other Side of Bi-Polar”. Her ‘thing’ is all about living beyond your label.

Find out more about her over at http://www.laurenpolly.com

Fav quotes from this episode:

“Really and truly the bigger picture is to build that trust in YOU.”

“You love the label because it gave you relief and at the same time you hate it because you’re in a box that you can’t get out of.”

“There’s so much of life to enjoy, but if you only ever put yourself in one box, you’re missing out.”

“Look normal and think wild!”

“If you’re with someone who’s disempowering you, don’t waste another appointment there.”

“We’re all weird and wonderful!”

“I am what I am...no matter what, I’m beautiful and I’m here.”

In this episode we talk about:

  • How knowing and trusting yourself, and embracing your uniqueness is the single most important thing you can do for yourself
  • Finding ways to navigate institutions, systems, and labels in a way that is helpful and empowering and... 
  • Not falling into the ‘either/or’ trap when it comes to considering your options
  • Learning to explore the elements of who you are beyond any labels or diagnosis’ you have had placed on you (or that you identify with)
  • Stigma, community, and the importance of recognising that we are not alone

 

Plus we talk about recognising that life is messy and learning to look for peace within that messiness not in spite of it.

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Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.