Episode 55

The One About Young Adults

Published on: 20th December, 2018

Meet Tess Brigham

Tess Brigham is a licensed psychotherapist and Board Certified Coach and specialises in helping 20-Somethings/Millennials navigate this exciting but overwhelming time in their lives. Tess wants all young adults to be able to enter into their 30s, 40s and 50s with confidence and clarity.

You can find out more about her over on her website www.tessbrighamcoaching.com, on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TessBrighamcoaching/ and on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tess_brigham/

Fav quotes from this episode:

“Being an adult is the ability to own your shit and be ok with it.”

“This person doesn’t like me - that’s ok.”

“This is my life. I’m the only one that has to live it.”

“I belong to me.”

“Our kids have their own viewpoint and perceptions of life.”

“Making mistakes is a huge part of adulting.”

“You cannot have anything without failure”

“If we want more, we have to dive in to being gritty - with grace”

“Discomfort means you’re getting close to what you really really want/need/desire.”

In this episode we talk about:

  • The exciting and overwhelming nature of being a “Millenial” (or parenting one) and how to navigate it.
  • The crucial step that many people completely miss on the journey through life.
  • The need to redefine our relationship with failure - it’s a good thing!
  • Learning to get comfortable with discomfort if you want to live a life by design.
  • How to parent in a way that does not set your child up for a life governed by fear.
  • Waking up to the fact that we have choices - and developing soverignty to make the choices that really serve our deepest calling.

Plus, we talk about a powerful lesson that we all need to learn, regardless of our current age.

Resources:

Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance’ by Angela Duckworth

Daring Greatly’ - Brene Brown

‘The More Mastermind’ - Ebonie’s brand new coaching programme. Launching Feb 2019


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Adulting with Ebonie is the weekly podcast that brings together Neurodiversity, Human Design and Embodiment so that Gen X or Millennial Misfits (and late-diagnosed Neurospices) become empowered, embodied and fully expressed. Where I actively encourage you to feel your feelings rather than think them, glow up not grow up and become full of yourself, because who the f*ck else should you be full of? Each week I have real and raw conversations about what it takes to be fully resourced and have happy healthy intimate relationships as a dopamine-deficient adult wanting to create a better future by being the change you want to see in the world.
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Ebonie Allard

Ebonie (Alchemy) Allard is a Modern Mystic, a Misfit turned Maven, an Award winning International Master Coach, Certified in Human Design and mBit (Multiple Brain Integration Technique) an Author, Artist and Speaker.

Professionally: She’s the creator of The Misfit to Maven Way, The Value Filter™ system and ‘The AWE (Adulting with Ebonie) Podcast.’

Using a wide range of both ancient and modern medicine she facilitates Self Actualisation in self-selected weirdos and neurodivergent beings.

Her work is specifically focused on empowerment, embodiment & full self-expression.

She shares her wisdom in online courses, intimate retreats and bespoke 1:1 experiences.

Personally: She's a pussycat slash mermaid - when she’s not working you’ll find her splashing about in the sea, curled up in a sunny spot or off chasing a rainbow.